Ek kudi

“Ek kudi Jida naam mohabbat gum hai”

It translates into, a girl whose is love is found nowhere. It’s a song from the movie “udta punjab”. 

This move showed drug and addicted aspect of the punjab, which we intentionally tend to ignore in the coolness of Punjabi. 

This song ek kudi, depict the misery of a migrant bihari laborer, who was innocently caught in the Web of drug, addiction and prostitution. 

It pained my heart to see that, then I realized it’s not just the case of one girl but many hundreds of them. The irony was that girl was state hockey champion but due to lack of finances she was working as a laborer in a farm. 

I strongly feel that, it’s time that people should realize and accept the things which are happening I their own country and their own nation. Nothing can be changed on one night, but a lot can happen, if we just started to accept the things. 

Direct from the heart part 2:Thank you note


I Want to thank all of guys, you following me, liking me, replying to my posts, I feel more of a company in WordPress. Because of all you I am getting application and a strong will to write more and express my thoughts. Honest confession, before starting this blog, I was feeling very alone depressed, stressed. I don’t know what exactly clicked, but it did work. Thank you again to all of you once again. 

Two  most prominent enemies:exam time and sleep 

Since my exams are approaching, and I am also going the same vicious cycle of two most prominent enemies during exam sleep and studying. I thought why not to share it with you all. 

I myself as a person have difficulty in sleeping, most of days I suffer from not sleeping soundsound, though I spend good no of hours lying in bed. I read many articles about how to cure this problem. Every where answer was the same,I have to become discipline and become punctual with my sleeping timings. 

And as usual I failed to do both. But the moment I come to know only some days have been left for exams. I feel like books are my sleeping pills and the moment I saw them I just fell asleep 

Jokes apart the reason is stress and lack of concentration. I feel so much stressed due to notion of exam that I tend to sleep more and more. The stress cause to switch off my mind, and send signals that I need to sleep. 

Then I start to look for the things so that I can save myself to  fall into the sleep trap. And I realized that I can do this if I push myself to a certain hourshours, so that I can maintain my sleep cycle. 

Well I must say have achieved  some success here but still need to do more. I realized it’s all mind game. It’s all about the inputs you gave to your brain if you will send positive signals, be determined, work on your schedule and routine you can do anything. 

How much is too much

Indian society is in transcending phase, here parents teach their kids to dream big#(not to big), fly(not to high), it’s better to not to teach them and let them explore them on their own. These lines are so casual and common that in hindsight, we have actually forget, the depth and impact on a child’s future. 

How much is too much needs to be defined,i.e how much be parents in their kids life, how much they be into it. It’s so open to debate. And it’s been debated for so long. 

Generation gap, generation issues were always there and will there always be. All we need to do  is to give some space, so that everyone can breath. 

Dreams should not be restricted, and flies can never be slow down. Dream big fly high. If nothing you can do atleast try

Direct from the heart 

I always wanted to write atleast this was something, I was always aspiring to dodo. And finally after so many ears have listened to my heart and started with this blog. I am not hoping to be famous or fabulous with my Grammer, I just want to write and that’s it

Birthday blues :mia and rishi

“Being in a commited relationship sometimes becomes the source of pain in life and one starts to thinkthink, the other scenario of wishful thinking, like it would have been better if I have been singl, atleast  won’t feel so lonely and sad being in a relationship with someone.”

That was exact thought going on mom’s mind. Rishi has never been so emotionally vermin as Mia wanted him and sometimes  rather than giving comfort he ends up giving more pain and issues. 

Samething happened again, it’s Mia birthday two days from today, and rishi is sick of bacterial infection.due to past so many issues, Mia had hurt lot of hurt, and she didn’t wanted him to be there. 

But when he finally said he won’t be coming,in not so please take manner she felt hurt. 

Mia cried and her anger busted out, with all frustration. Irony was she was all alone and shouting. So no one knew that.

Poor Mia she felt she is compromising on everything and now her birthday too. She sat sadly and become determined that, she will not let her happiness depend on anyone and be more independent  and fierce.